18 common phrases to avoid in conversation
18 common phrases to avoid in conversation Some things should never be said -- like these phrases. Here, what to say instead. What Not to Say About Someone's Appearance Don't say: "You look tired." Why: It implies she doesn't look good. Instead say: "Is everything OK?" We often blurt the "tired" comment when we get the sense that the other person feels out of sorts. So just ask. Don't say: "Wow, you've lost a ton of weight!" Why: To a newly trim person, it might give the impression that she used to look unattractive. Instead say: "You look fantastic." And leave it at that. If you're curious about how she got so svelte, add, "What's your secret?" Don't say: "You look good for your age." Why: Anything with a caveat like this is rude. It's saying, "You look great -- compared with other old people. It's amazing you have all your own teet...